Eyes to See

Thank you for praying for our Middle School Retreat February 20-23!

Staff and students alike enjoyed a few days outside the city at a nearby retreat center, though some of us didn’t get much sleep those two nights! Middle school students seem to have boundless energy though there were plenty of activities to keep them busy – ultimate cow tongue (think ultimate frisbee but more disgusting), hiking, soccer, basketball, tag, and scavenger hunts. And, of course, there were the worship services, teaching sessions, and small group times. The Lord met us there and many students encountered Jesus’ love in new ways through song, prayer, laughter, tears, conversation, and diving into God’s Word.

High school spiritual impact week in February was also a time of challenge and growth for our students. Our special speaker, a missionary from Hungary, brought messages centered on having the mind of Christ based on Colossians 3:1-3. Earlier in the month high school chapels focused on issues of poverty, so our spiritual impact week ended with a high school service day. Students were divided into four groups to visit four centers of ministry both inside and outside of Tirana. They learned firsthand about relief and development efforts, orphan and children’s work, literacy outreach and church-planting ministries. The following week several students shared moving testimonies of the impact of that day.

Then came March, now April. We’ve returned to the routine of school days with quizzes, homework, lesson plans, meetings, classroom management and school-age drama.  Walking through the ordinary days of life, eyes focused on the tasks at hand, it’s hard to remember the moments recently set apart. For us as teachers at a Christian school, there’s a sort of emotional/spiritual whiplash that happens when we go from crying and praying with a student at retreat to having to discipline that same student for misbehavior in the classroom. When faced with the need to move through the curriculum and complete a lesson plan despite a roomful of talkative students, it’s easy to forget the heart needs of each student.

16 So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. 17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here! 18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and gave us the ministry of reconciliation: 19 that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ, not counting people’s sins against them. And he has committed to us the message of reconciliation. 20 We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ’s behalf: Be reconciled to God. 21 God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God.              

 2 Corinthians 5:16-21 (NIV)

Pray we may truly see each student, day in and day out, as created in the image of God. Pray we may be so filled with God’s love towards them, so filled with His Spirit, that we act each day as ambassadors bringing a message of reconciliation through Jesus Christ.

 

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Our Words Give Life

We are well into our second semester of the school year. First semester report card grades were submitted, and narrative evaluations written. Though I only have 36 students in Grades 6-8, writing those comments always seems a daunting task. Thankfully, we limit the scope of comments to a few sentences concerning academic progress (or lack thereof, unfortunately). Len, then, as Secondary Head, must read and review every comment written by both middle school and high school teachers. All in all, that’s a lot of words.

But having to write and read comments forces us to sit and reflect on each individual student for a time. And we ask ourselves, “How well do we know them? Who are they, really? What struggles do they deal with each day, at school and outside school, that affects their academics?” These middle school years are HARD. It’s a time of growth, doubt, insecurity, discovering your identity, peer pressure, anxiety, happiness and sometimes deep sadness.

Our students are so much more than the sum totals of their grades in my class, in any class. But some find their identity in those grades. Some honestly don’t care, but others will read teacher comments and take them to heart, positive or negative. So, we write carefully, prayerfully. There’s power in those words, in the words we speak to them each day in and out of class, in the words their classmates speak to and about them.

“The tongue has the power of life and death,

and those who love it will eat its fruit.”

(Proverbs 18:21, NIV)

In the face of a daily barrage of “likes/dislikes”, how can we help them see who they really are?  How can we enable them to understand how truly valuable and loved they are?

“How great is the love the Father has lavished on us,

that we should be called children of God!

And that is what we are!”

(1 John 3:1, NIV)

This is the incredible privilege we have while serving at a Christian school in Albania. We can share with our students the unconditional love of God. We can invite them into a relationship with their Father who loves them no matter what. We can help them understand His grace that meets their deepest needs.

Oh, that their hearts would be open to hear and embrace His love!

Please pray for us and for our students. Pray especially for Middle School Retreat coming up February 2022. Those few days away from school are such an opportunity for hearts to be transformed and lives to be surrendered to Jesus! Pray God’s Word shared through messages and small group times would bear much fruit!

Thank you for partnering with us in all we do!

 

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Still Learning…

Over fall break we decided to stay in Tirana and learn more about where we live. So often it seems that we are too busy to explore and delve more deeply into the history and culture right in front of us. So we spent a few days being tourists and came away with a deeper appreciation for the complex history and the rich culture of this country we have the privilege to call “home” right now.

We joined a free walking tour one day! Our guide was interesting and informative!

 

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His Presence and Peace

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Praying for open doors

On the evening of the first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jews, Jesus came and stood among them and said, “Peace be with you!”                        John 20:19

There is no lock, no closed door, nothing that can bar the presence of Jesus. Not fear. Not even death and grief. No, for once Jesus’ presence was made known to the disciples, joy replaced all else. And His presence brought them peace.

So, too, we have experienced His presence and His peace, even though we began our school year grieving the loss of one of our students. Miriam was in Kindergarten last year, with two older siblings also in the Lower School. This summer, after a brief but serious illness, Miriam died. Her family flew home to the Netherlands for the funeral and burial, returning to Albania in early September. Last week, GDQ International Christian School held a Celebration of Life service to remember precious Miriam.IMG_5565 We all felt the presence of the Lord sustaining, comforting, granting peace in the midst of pain. Our community – children and parents, students and teachers –  wept together with her family and proclaimed together the hope we have in Jesus Christ. We’ve now set apart a special place to remember Miriam at school, to remember the joy her life brought to so many. Please pray for her family in the coming days, that the presence and peace of Jesus would fill their hearts and lives each day.

We began classes August 28. Len continues to split his days between the high school and K-8 campuses as Head of Secondary. He is also taking a more active role in guiding High School chapels this year. Betsy is enjoying teaching Middle School Bible and leading Lower School chapels once again, as well as being involved with the Middle School youth ministry, ELEVATE. Though it sometimes seems the door to some students’ hearts are closed, we know Jesus is at work in their lives. They are hearing His word day in and day out and hearing testimonies of His presence in the lives of teachers and classmates. Won’t you join us in praying that God’s presence and peace would overcome their doubt, questions, stubbornness, or fear?

Thank you for walking with us through the doors of ministry God has opened in Albania!

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Looking Back, Looking Ahead

For everything that was written in the past was written to teach us,
so that through the endurance taught in the Scriptures
and the encouragement they provide, we might have hope.
May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you
the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had,
so that with one mind and one voice
you may glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.
Romans 15:4-6 (NIV)

Almost ten months ago, we moved to Tirana to begin serving at GDQ International Christian School. It’s been a busy year, one filled with as much learning as teaching. After twenty years ministering in Latin America, we still look around us and ask ourselves, “How did we get here?” God surely has a sense of humor to call us to a new place, a new culture and a new language at our age! Yet we are confident that He has brought us here and that He will continue to sustain us with endurance and encouragement that we may bring Him glory through this work.

So now we need to spend some time reflecting back on this school year, peeling back the layers on all we have experienced. We’ve visited several historic sites this year – castles and ruins – and have been undeniably impressed by the effort that goes in to peeling back the layers of time to uncover centuries of history. How much we can learn by looking back! Though we’ve had years of missions experience and came to teach and to serve in administration at GDQ, we’ve found we still have much to learn. In the Albanian language (speaking of much to learn!), the word “mësoj” can mean “I learn” or “I teach”. In the same way, we have found teaching and learning inexplicably intertwined through our hearts and minds this year.

Through innumerable meetings and cappuccinos, Len is learning how to appreciate the culture and history of GDQ School, how to navigate our educational software systems, and how to implement changes in a way that serves the needs of a diverse international population of staff and students. As he’s taught Business Math in the high school, he’s learned more about the culture and personalities of students whose parents are from Guatemala, the United States, Norway, Italy, Hungary, and Albania.

In Middle School Bible classes, Betsy is learning to teach God’s Word to students with disparate background knowledge of and interest in the Scriptures. As she participates in the Middle School youth ministry and leads a small group of Grade 6 girls each week, Betsy is discovering the unique stories, gifts and struggles of her students from varying faith experiences. Leading Lower School chapels continues to reveal the need to share the stories of the Bible in an understandable, creative and meaningful way with children.

And among other things, we’re learning to pay our monthly internet bill on time so it doesn’t get cut off. We’re realizing we need to invest more time and energy, even after long school days, into learning Albanian so we can build relationships within our community. Our understanding of the fascinating and complex history of Albania, politically and spiritually, is being enriched by wandering Tirana and by traveling to sites and cities outside the capital. Finally, we’ve come to know how much we depend on serving with a community of believers and co-laborers who share their guidance, counsel, friendship, joy and struggles in life and ministry.

Looking back over this year and looking ahead to summer in the United States then returning to Albania for the next school year, we are filled with hope. In so many ways, it has been a great year, but it’s not always easy, especially being so far from our own children and granddaughter, parents, siblings, nieces and nephews. We miss many special occasions back home in the US. We struggle with the cold in winter and the heat in summer and the constant noise and pollution in the city. We are frustrated at our lack of ability to communicate. We are often exhausted after a long week of school. We’ve made mistakes, offended or hurt others through miscommunication or misunderstandings. Sometimes it’s just plain hard.

And yet, we are filled with hope – hope that we can make a difference for God here, hope that He can use us to see lives and hearts and a society transformed by the power of the Gospel, hope that any sacrifices we make will seem as gain as we relentlessly pursue obedience to Christ. Pray with us that His Word will peel back the layers of many hearts and plant seeds of hope through personal knowledge of the life, death and resurrection of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ!

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Keeping up with our Steps

We see many of our friends and family relying on their fitness trackers to keep up with their steps throughout the day. Though we don’t have one (yet), we thought we’d look back and update you on some of the steps we’ve taken over the past six months. Don’t worry – it won’t add up to 10,000!

We arrived in Albania on Friday, August 25, and began the school year at GDQ International Christian School on Tuesday, August 29. Those first weeks were a whirlwind of unpacking, shopping, meeting people, and learning our way around the city of Tirana. Even with Google maps we’ve managed to get lost a few times as we’ve walked around the city. Thankfully, we haven’t yet gotten on the wrong bus!

Being Head of Secondary Len walks back and forth from our high school campus (9-12) to our lower school campus (K-8) several times a day. It’s only a ten-minute walk but it can be an adventure getting past the loose geese in an empty lot. Apparently Len’s briefcase comes in handy as a shield! Though Betsy stays at the lower school campus, she gets her steps in going up and down from the staff room and printer on the first floor to her office and classroom on the third floor, as well as frequent trips to the nearest grocery store.

A huge step in our journey these past months was Len graduating from Columbia International University with his Master of Education in Administration in December. Though he wasn’t able to attend his actual graduation ceremonies, he was surprised with a “ceremony” complete with hood and stole during a Friday morning staff meeting at GDQ. It’s been a blessing to work alongside the rest of our K-12 staff at school. Many have come to serve here from the United States, but others from the United Kingdom, Switzerland, Finland, South Korea, Canada and Albania. Though our instruction at school is in English, numerous other languages are represented in our school community. As we begin more formal language training in Albanian, we are hoping that our having learned Spanish will help us in understanding some of the grammatical rules and constructions. But we are more than a few steps away from being able to hold a conversation in Albanian!

Besides learning culture and language, we are learning much about our students at GDQ. Our 137 students represent more than 20 different countries. Some have lived all their lives in Albania. Others, like us, only arrived a few months ago. Some are already planning to leave at the end of this school year, either temporarily or permanently. Most have had numerous experiences with transition in their lives. Wherever their steps might lead, we are thankful to have this opportunity to walk alongside them as they learn and grow academically, emotionally, physically and spiritually. As the GDQ International Christian School vision statement says, our goal is that of “educating international children to have maximum influence for the glory of God in their lifetime”.

A recent highlight that led our students to take steps in drawing closer to God was our Middle School Retreat. We spent two nights and three days at a campground outside the city. Activities included games of hide and seek, hiking, basketball, ping pong and other large group outside games. More importantly, as we learned how to have an unbreakable faith, the Lord moved on many hearts during our worship and small group times.

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Giving Thanks

Before November gets away from us we wanted to be sure to thank each of you for being a part of our ministry here at GDQ International Christian School! Without your faithful support and prayers, we certainly couldn’t be here investing in the lives of our staff and students. THANK YOU! Our hearts are truly filled with gratitude for the privilege of serving the Lord in Tirana, Albania.

Though Thanksgiving was a little different this year, we were blessed and thankful to still enjoy a traditional American holiday meal. We had several invitations to join others for the day and ended up spending the day with a group of missionaries, enjoying turkey with all the trimmings and some wonderful fellowship around the table. Though we weren’t with our own family back in Georgia and New Jersey, we were thankful to be able to speak to all of them via FaceTime over the holiday.

Other blessings we find ourselves thankful for include the opportunity to attend the weeklong conference of the Albanian Encouragement Project held in Budva, Montenegro. We rode up with World Gospel Mission coworkers, Nathan and Cydil Waggoner, and their two children. Len’s sister, Joy Phillips, also attended as she spent time in Albania as part of her responsibilities as WGM Regional Director for Asia, Europe and Oceania. It was a wonderful week of worship, fellowship, and learning more about various ministries throughout Albania

During the school week, our days are full, leaving each morning at 6:45 a.m. Many days there are meetings to attend after school as well, especially for Len in administration. With the time change recently, it’s getting dark here by 4:30 p.m. so our internal clocks are having a hard time realizing it’s not as late as it feels! Of course, after arriving home there’s always “homework” – lesson plans, grading, and for Len, finishing up his final online course at Columbia International University in South Carolina. As of December 8, he will officially graduate with his Master of Education degree! For that, we are truly thankful!

Again, thank you for allowing us to share with you some of the blessings God is showering on us here in Albania. And thank you for being one of those blessings!

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